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WITHOUT A SOULMATE: “The Absence Of My Supposed Lover” — Amb. Kamal Mopelola

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Amb. Kamal Mopelola Kiniun Annabi

Love can be a beautiful and fulfilling experience, but what happens when that love is absent? The absence of my supposed lover has left a void in my heart, a space that yearns for companionship and affection. The loneliness that seeps into my soul is palpable, as I navigate through life without the love and support that I long for.

The absence of a supposed lover can sometimes leave a void that is difficult to fill. It is a feeling of emptiness that lingers on, making every day seem bleak and colorless. There is a constant ache in the heart, a longing for something that was never fully there. It is a paradoxical experience – the absence of something that was never truly present.

In the absence of my supposed lover, I am forced to confront the reality of my own desires and aspirations. I realize that I had become dependent on the idea of this person, projecting my own fantasies onto them.

In doing so, I had neglected to nurture my own sense of self and neglected my own needs. The absence of this person has forced me to confront the truth – that I am responsible for my own happiness and fulfillment.

In the absence of my supposed lover, I have come to appreciate the importance of self-love and self-care. I have learned that I cannot rely on another person to complete me or to make me feel whole. I have discovered the strength within myself to heal and to grow. I have learned to cherish my own company and to find joy and contentment in solitude.

The absence of my supposed lover has also taught me the value of true connection and meaningful relationships. I have come to understand that it is not the quantity of relationships that matters, but the quality.

I have learned to surround myself with people who truly care for me and support me in my journey of self-discovery. I cherish the deep bonds that I have formed with friends and family, and I am grateful for their unconditional love.

In the absence of my supposed lover, I have learned to embrace uncertainty and to let go of expectations. I have come to understand that life is unpredictable and that things don’t always go as planned.

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I have learned to surrender to the flow of life and to trust in the process. I have learned to find beauty in the present moment, rather than constantly yearning for something that may never come.

But perhaps there is a silver lining in this absence. Maybe the absence of my supposed lover is a blessing in disguise, a chance for me to focus on self-improvement and personal growth. Maybe it is an opportunity to rediscover my passions, to pursue my dreams with unwavering determination.

 

In conclusion, the absence of my supposed lover has been a transformative experience. It has taught me the importance of self-love, meaningful relationships, and embracing uncertainty.

It has made me realize that my happiness and fulfillment are not contingent on another person, but rather on my own choices and mindset. The absence of my supposed lover has ultimately empowered me to become the best version of myself and to live my life to the fullest.

So, as I continue on this journey without my supposed lover, I hold onto hope. Hope that love will find its way into my life, in whatever form it may take. Hope that the absence of my supposed lover is just a chapter in my story, and that the pages ahead hold the promise of love and happiness.

Amb. Kamal Mopelola Kiniun Annabi ambassadorkamalmopelola@gmail.com

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8 Comments

8 Comments

  1. Amb. Kamal Mopelola Kiniun Annabi

    February 27, 2024 at 10:12 am

    Thoughtful 🤔 and Insightful 💡

  2. Adebayo Awwal Alaba

    February 27, 2024 at 10:28 am

    This is absolutely truth and you nail it a lot.

  3. Wahab Nimota

    February 27, 2024 at 3:45 pm

    Right on point!!! Great write up.

    • Amb. Kamal Mopelola Kiniun Annabi

      February 28, 2024 at 5:42 am

      Pleased to know that. Thanks so much.

      • Korokoro hafusot arike

        February 28, 2024 at 12:52 pm

        This is a very touch story? It is absolutely truth and right on point. Am so proud of u bros

    • Korokoro hafusot arike

      February 28, 2024 at 12:51 pm

      This is a very touch story? It is absolutely truth and right on point. Am so proud of u bros

  4. Ismail adeshola hafusot arike

    February 28, 2024 at 12:44 pm

    Very touch story? This is absolutely truth and u nail it a lot great writer bros

  5. Korokoro hafusot arike

    February 28, 2024 at 12:45 pm

    Very touch story? This is absolutely truth and u nail it a lot great writer bros

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