My Premature Ejaculation – Tribune Online

Written by Dr Wale Okediran

I am a 20 year old student in one of the higher education institutions in the country. My problem is that when I’m in bed with my girlfriends, I cum quickly. This has caused me a lot of tension with my girlfriends. Your kind advice will be highly appreciated.

Busayo (by SMS)

It is believed that a large percentage of those who suffer from premature ejaculation (PE) are the anxious and nervous type with low self-esteem most of the time. It can also occur in high achievers who are usually in a hurry and have trouble relaxing. A smaller percentage of patents usually have an underlying condition such as hemorrhoids (pile) hypertension or diabetes. Therefore, the first line of treatment is for you to see a doctor who will give you a general medical examination, including some lab tests. This allows us to rule out any of the above diseases. However, if these diseases exist, they would be treated. However, if it is discovered that there is no medical basis for your condition, you will need advice on the psychological causes of premature ejaculation. When a person suffers from low esteem, he usually finds it difficult to control his sex drive and thus rapid ejaculation. Similar incidents can follow due to the same anxious state with the development of a vicious circle of events. The treatment is mainly that of support and reassurance. This is easier if you have an understanding and steady partner. In this kind of situation it is advisable to get married as it will provide the friendly and calm atmosphere that the treatment of the condition demands. As for those who are always in a hurry, there is an urgent need to reduce their workload and create more time for relaxation. They shouldn’t see sex as just another item in their busy schedule that needs to be done away with as soon as possible.

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